Turtle on 5/4/2006 at 19:02
I have the world's largest collection of my stuff...
Uncia on 5/4/2006 at 19:54
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If one child can be saved...
That one child can fuck right off and stop making the world a stupider place to live in for the rest of us. It's a stupid argument that can be used to justify
anything and people who use it are poopoo heads. Don't be a poopoo head.
fett on 5/4/2006 at 20:06
"POO-POO HEAD!! POO POO HEAD!!"
Rug Burn Junky on 5/4/2006 at 20:36
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What about the child? Can any of you immagine how it feels to grow up with this shame and feeling that you can never tell anyone...
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Please do try to look at this from the childs point of view---
So, tell us.
Was the guy who molested you the same one that put you in the box?
Scots Taffer on 5/4/2006 at 21:55
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Scots, what's with you lately? Is it the heat down there, or the stress of fatherhood getting to you or what? It's like you don't bother thinking things through before commenting on em.
Er, care to back that up at all... or are you just being you? I began posting here in joke form then was a bit disgusted to see the rationale on display here. Personally, I think there's a whole factor that's not being taken into consideration here which is that not every sexual inclination is naturally occurring - that is, that sexual fetishes can be derived from either psychological or emotional pressures and also perhaps the result of society.
My question is: if paedophilia is acceptable by a sexual preference standard, where does it stop? I guess someone somewhere has already decided that beastiality is cool. Are you going to tell me that (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crush_fetish) Crush fetishists don't have a choice? Really? You honestly
believe that isn't just the product of a society with too much time and access to resources on its hands? You believe a guy is born with either a predisposition to the male or female sex, of reasonable or unreasonable age, or of little furry things getting stomped? I mean, furries fall under this too - are you guys honestly going to legitimise a sexual preference that <strike>you've all</strike> many of you have been disgusted by and have furiously mocked (OB you know what I'm talking about here)?
Don't misread this as OMG THE WEIRD SEX IS EVIL, because I'm not that fucking simple. I'm saying that I think there are certain perversions (yeah, that's right I said it) that are more of a product of society or a particularly twisted individual rather than the sexual preference status quo.
metal dawn on 5/4/2006 at 22:00
Am I living in a box
Am I living in a cardboard box
Stitch on 5/4/2006 at 22:10
Well let's get this shit started. Nobody on either side of the pedophilia divide has really nailed it so I'm going to TELL IT LIKE IT IS. But let's pretend Fingernail didn't actually bring homosexuality into the equation as that's the most ridiculously irrelevent tangent imaginable and he should have his pretty guitar-picking fingers broken as punishment, even if his intentions were good.
So let's address this bit by bit: in order for Doyle to be a genuine pedophile the 14 year old girl would have to not have gone through puberty yet. Being attracted to kids is called pedophilia. Being attracted to teenage girls is called being a straight male.
Teenagers in general are gorgeous, regardless of sex. They've got a youthful version of an adult's body without the wrinkles, extra fat, and general wear and tear that accumulate with age. Dia can stick her head in the sand all she wants but the fact remains that we are programmed to find these post-pubescent teens sexually desirable. Does that make us pedophiles? Of course not--a curvy fifteen year old is hot not because she's got the body of a kid but because she's got the body of a woman.
Does that mean that older guys would be be morally free to pursue these teens if only that pesky age of consent law were suspended? Of course not. While we may be wired to enjoy the view, the concept of actually romancing a teenage girl is fucking creepy. Their bodies may be nice but all you need to do is spend ten seconds talking to one to realize that teens are, in fact, still kids. Teens are still developing mentally, and sneaking into their pants by pretending to give a shit about MySpace and Hawthorne Heights is just predatory and repugnant.
As for genuine pedophilia, I'm not comfortable with the attempt in this thread to to trivialize it as harmless unless acted upon. While people wired that way shouldn't be immediately viewed as monsters, nor should their sexual tastes be treated as anything other than wrong. Pedophiles have a condition, if you will, that can turn into a very real problem if they aren't on their guard against it. I'm not saying that every pedophile is a walking bomb, of course--they simply need to know that they have to keep the match as far away from the fuse as possible.
One other minor thing to note is there are faw fewer ways to privately indulge a kink like pedophilia harmlessly. While Shayde can get double stuffed action while victimizing nobody, kiddie porn is a different matter entirely.
Para?noid on 5/4/2006 at 22:23
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One other minor thing to note
oh my stitch there goes the brit in you
Sypha Nadon on 5/4/2006 at 22:46
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One other minor thing to note is there are faw fewer ways to privately indulge a kink like pedophilia harmlessly. While Shayde can get double stuffed action while victimizing nobody, kiddie porn is a different matter entirely.
Well, in terms of actual sexual pornography, yeah... However, there's quite a lot of stuff out there that presents children in a manner that could be considered erotic or sexualized, and I suppose a pedophile might get off on that, if they're desperate enough. Everything from the occasional Calvin Klein ads to Jon Benet Ramsey-style child pageants to child modeling websites and so forth.
I don't think pedophiles are monsters, but they're still pretty messed up. One of my all-time favorite writers, Peter Sotos, was the first man in America to be arrested for the possession of child pornography, back in 1984 or 1985. He's never, to my knowledge, actually molested anyone, but he sure writes about doing it a lot. At least he freely admits he's a pervert though... unlike NAMBLA freaks who try to pass themselves off as regular joes and see themselves as "normal".
Dia on 5/4/2006 at 22:59
Quote Posted by Stitch
Being attracted to teenage girls is called being a straight male.
If you mean just finding teenage girls physically attractive then yes, that's just a male thing. But add the sexual perspective and it's called * ephebophilia *; the sexual attraction of an adult to an adolescent (ie. to someone between the stages of puberty and adulthood).
I'm not sticking my head in the sand, Stitch. I'm fully aware that there are some men who feel
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However, I'm glad you went on to say
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While we may be wired to enjoy the view, the concept of actually romancing a teenage girl is fucking creepy.
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that sounded more like a normal male attitude. Like I said before though, we could split hairs here indefinitely, but I (and millions of other parents) still have a problem with adult males who have serious sexual obsessions with teenaged girls. I wouldn't call an adult male who admires the beauty of a post-pubescent girl a pervert; but if he starts fantasizing obsessively about what he'd like to do to/with her then yes, he's just crossed the line.
As for the rest of your post, I'm pretty much in agreement.
So there.