Gillie on 5/4/2006 at 13:19
This is so Sick. Even talking about Paedophiles,and under age girls . :mad:
Dia on 5/4/2006 at 13:24
Quote Posted by BRS Bävern
What's wrong with being a pedophile? I mean, I can see your point if your talking about sexual abuse, but what's wrong with getting turned on by undeveloped girls?
Whoever told you that getting negative attention was better than getting no attention at all was wrong. Or seriously disfunctional. Or both.
Go away.
Briareos H on 5/4/2006 at 13:26
BUT SHE HAD CONSENTED
And to answer the topic :
* A necrophiliac pedophile using live animals during the job. :cool:
* Michael Jackson
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Whoever told you that getting negative attention was better than getting no attention at all was wrong. Or seriously disfunctional. Or both.
Go away.
May I ask why ?
Dia on 5/4/2006 at 13:46
Why what? The fact that preying on 'underdeveloped' children sexually is not only illegal but immoral as well as seriously sick behavior and that suggesting there is nothing wrong with being a pedophile is - well -
sick. Unless BRS is just trolling, then that's just plain rude/stupid. Or why did I tell him/her to go away? I believe I just answered that.
'Course, I may be taking this waaayyy too seriously, but I know a family whose little girl (8 yrs. old) was molested by a man (25 yrs. old) who seemed to think there was nothing wrong with being a pedophile. The child has been in counseling for the last three years and is still terrified of men. Not funny to me in the least.
But then again, I am of German descent. :p
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BUT SHE HAD CONSENTED
She was
UNDERAGE. Meaning; she had not yet reached the age of legal consent. Duh. (Tell me you were just teasing with that remark.) :weird:
Rogue Keeper on 5/4/2006 at 13:46
I think that sexual arousement of an adult male to teenage girls is in essence natural, under condition that he's also sexually attracted to adult females (around his age) as well. Afterall, many teenage girls are developed just like mature females, then no surprise. How many legal trans-generational relationships have arised from such attraction? If an adult male is exclusively attracted only to teenage girls, that would be abnormality in sexual behavior.
Myoldnamebroke on 5/4/2006 at 13:57
Quote Posted by Dia
Why what? The fact that preying on 'underdeveloped' children sexually is not only illegal but immoral as well as seriously sick behavior
Which is why in his post he made the distinction between abuse and attraction. He said 'it's ok to be aroused' not 'it's ok to rape'. It doesn't stop it being a little creepy (understatement!) but it's an important distinction to make.
There's also a distinction that BRnumbers is trying to make - between young teenagers and actual children. There's a world of difference between someone being attracted to a 15 year old and a 7 year old.
Dia on 5/4/2006 at 14:08
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I think that sexual arousement of an adult male to teenage girls is in essence natural, under condition that he's also sexually attracted to adult females (around his age) as well. Afterall, many teenage girls are developed just like mature females, then no surprise. How many legal trans-generational relationships have arised from such attraction?
I was referring to children, as in pre-pubescent. But I still question the mental health of an adult male who is seriously attracted to and may act on that attraction to a teen-aged girl. That denotes a serious dysfunction in that man's brain IMO. (Common thoughts when people see an older man hitting on a teen-age girl; either 'Pervert!', or, 'What's wrong, couldn't you get a woman your own age, Loser?') I'm of course referring to men who are more than several years older than the teen in question. And no; most people don't think that type of attraction is 'natural' (especially parents).
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If an adult male is exclusively attracted only to teenage girls, that would be abnormality in sexual behavior.
I.E. - paedophilia.
SD on 5/4/2006 at 14:09
BRS is bang on the money, and it annoys me to see the kneejerk majority make no distinction between paedophilia and child sex abuse.
A majority of men fantasise about having forceful sex with women. But the vast majority of men are not rapists! I wouldn't be at all surprised if most of those who found children sexually attractive were able to keep their fantasies in check in a similar manner.
Rogue Keeper on 5/4/2006 at 14:15
StD, you know that some radical feminists consider mere act of penetration of penis into vagina a "rape"? From philosophical point of view. Because yes, it's in essence a forceful act. :)
Briareos H on 5/4/2006 at 14:15
Instead of posting redundent thoughts about what I expected from Dia's answer, I'll just say that I think that BR, monb and SD are right on - I fully agree with them.