Sulphur on 10/11/2009 at 16:23
Where have you been? Religion and sex are what just about all debates boil down to over here
Enchantermon on 10/11/2009 at 16:25
Now that you mention it, you're right. :erg:
Singing Dancing Moose on 10/11/2009 at 16:46
yeah regardless i hope things work out for you enchantermon. your attempts to fight against supposed male stereotypes aren't really doing you any favors though. I don't know who you hang out with, but if they honestly think that being emotionally open and not afraid to express their feelings are bad things or limited to a certain gender and orientation, you might need new friends.
anyway in truth i only like chakats
Chimpy Chompy on 10/11/2009 at 16:59
Chanty, it does sound a bit like you're still rebelling against the high school jocks. Some people can still be jerks about having emotions or whatever, but in the real world i've never had it suggested i like the gentle slap of testicles in my face just cos I'm not much bothered with cars or working a powerdrill.
Hmm altho if the jocks were telling you it's considered straight to get together and check out each others tools I think that's called "denial".
Enchantermon on 10/11/2009 at 17:05
Actually, the people I hang out with are cool. Some other feel that way, but don't poke fun at others who feel differently.
In any event, when I wrote all of that, I was just expressing myself, defining who I am. Anyone who happens upon the profile and reads it may think I'm being defensive, or they may start to think that the stereotypes are wrong. I don't care either way. I am who I am.
Quote Posted by Chimpy Chompy
Chanty, it does sound a bit like you're still rebelling against the high school jocks. Some people can still be jerks about having emotions or whatever, but I've never had people suggest i like the gentle slap of testicles in my face just cos I'm not much bothered with cars or working a powerdrill.
A bit, yeah.
Just last week two guys in my class were talking and one of them mentioned in passing another of the guys in the class. He couldn't remember his name, so he just said, "the gay guy".
Thing is, I know a little more about the supposed "gay guy". He cares about his appearance and has a higher voice than the stereotypical male has. But he also has a girlfriend. Based on this information, I assume he's straight. But based on his appearance and voice, some one else assumed he's gay. People definitely still stereotype.
Spock on 10/11/2009 at 17:17
Quote Posted by io organic industrialism
... i'm still with the same girl and now we have a 3 year old son.
I met the girl, who turned out to be the girl of my dreams, on 14 February 1968. We were married 12 July 1968 and still haven't found anyone else we would rather be with than each other.
Don't waste your virginity and don't be like Leisure Suit Larry by looking for love in all the wrong places.
Go to places that interest you and note the eligible females of your species. If any of them seem appropriate, talk to them about what is obviously a common interest. Don't force anything ... if it's meant to be, it will happen. Just don't let it happen until after you are married.
gunsmoke on 10/11/2009 at 17:38
Treat women like curtains...wipe your dick on them when you're done and throw them away when they stand up on their own.
june gloom on 10/11/2009 at 17:40
I'm assuming your ladyfriend wasn't standing over your shoulder when you wrote that, gunny? ;)
DDL on 10/11/2009 at 17:49
Quote Posted by Spock
Don't waste your virginity
I still don't understand this mindset. Like virginity is some PRECIOUS RESOURCE to be hoarded until you get to the end boss, rather than simply a necessary speedbump to be passed so you can get on with actually enjoying sex rather than worrying about it.
Plus generally speaking, sex is an important part of a relationship, and great sex in a great relationship is fantastic: you could love someone like a soul mate, but if the sex is unremittingly crap....you're missing out. So why not check before you commit? Take a test drive, at the very least.
Kolya on 10/11/2009 at 17:57
It's curious how we all like to be so individual but when someone comes around who lives his life less ordinary, we feel compelled to put him down or pass unsolicited advice. I'm totally including myself here. Anyway, a song for the all around extraordinary E-man.
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