Gorgonseye on 28/6/2007 at 18:57
"Urk, looks like I have a house guest"? More like.....umm....Kay, need...First word, one letter,comma, then seven letters, got one!
"Yes, I got a brand new hoe" Nope that's only seven...
"Nice, I just got my first bitch!" No, still only seven...
"Lolz, I gotz a 1337 n3w bi7ch!" Still seven words damn it! (Could save that for later though.)
"Sweet, I got a new chick to bang!" There we go! No need to thank me SD, all in a day's work!.:thumb:
I totally helped that guy out I just know it...
Chimpy Chompy on 28/6/2007 at 19:49
Quote Posted by Rug Burn Junky
I don't see the "hate."
Poor choice of words on my part - I just don't see him having done anything seriously wrong here, so was surprised at some of the reactions.
Rug Burn Junky on 28/6/2007 at 21:09
Quote Posted by Chimpy Chompy
Poor choice of words on my part - I just don't see him having done anything seriously wrong here, so was surprised at some of the reactions.
Because he calls the guy a "friend" and then the minute he gets his girl alone he blabs out that he's cheated on her? Maybe the guy deserved it, but it's presumptuous to insert yourself as the arbiter of morals in that situation and bring this to a head.
There are times when discretion is warranted, and when one of your "friends" has a piece on this side, that is definitely one of them. Anything other than keeping your mouth shut is shit stirring, and it's definitely not as altruistic as StD would so desperately like to think it is.
theBlackman on 28/6/2007 at 23:32
Well said RBJ :thumb:
SD on 28/6/2007 at 23:33
No RBJ, I don't disagree... I mean, I still do think in the long term it should be "best" for both of them, but I'm not sure if I made a mistake or not in spilling the beans. I'm not trying to set myself up as a martyr here but I've never been in a situation like this before and I am going to fuck up a few times along the way. She just asked me outright if I could confirm her suspicions and I felt put on the spot and I didn't know what to say, so I just said yes (which was true) but I'm not sure I've done the right thing at all. The truth is I'm just not good in situations I've never been in before.
Shug on 28/6/2007 at 23:36
Quote Posted by Rug Burn Junky
I think people are just recognizing that he's already dicked the guy over
now comes the girl :cool:
Printer's Devil on 29/6/2007 at 01:40
Quote Posted by SD
I'm not sure if I made a mistake or not in spilling the beans.
Oh ho! Make with the pics!
Sorry, cheap shot and entirely unhelpful, but British English is so evocative. Keep listening to RBJ's tough love--skinning your knee is one thing, but no one wants you to break a leg (assuming Monsieur Cocaine is not entirely passive).
Turtle on 29/6/2007 at 03:15
So, Thighmaster...how's her ass?
Tocky on 29/6/2007 at 03:34
Not to put any pressure on you old boy but if she stuck with him through all that then he was laying some impressive pipe. Hope you are up to the challenge.
Then again maybe it is just cynical of us to assume that when a woman downs her man to you that it means what it nearly always means and when you burn a friend for a woman it means you want her even more and that you are going to get drunk together commiserating and trip and impale her on a handy bed. I suppose she could have been just manipulating you into getting the dirt on loser guy so she could work some guilt angle on him to keep getting whateverthehell he's been doing that makes her brain stop working only more under her control. Uh... that's less cynical right?
Shayde was right. Use a rubber.
And popsiclechrist Dia, use rubber gloves when you pick those parasites off you. I hope they are at least family.
Vasquez on 29/6/2007 at 05:08
Quote Posted by Rug Burn Junky
There are times when discretion is warranted, and when one of your "friends" has a piece on this side, that is definitely one of them. Anything other than keeping your mouth shut is shit stirring
I don't like the idea of outright lying ("No, s/he didn't cheat!") in a situation like this - friend or not - because I think the cheated (cheatee? :P) has the right to know, to have hard facts of his/her relationship to base important decisions on. It would be better to say something vague like I don't know.
After all, if someone is asking, it's not the same as if you ring your best friend's SO to tell there's cheating going on. That's something that will probably backfire at your own face sooner or later.
But then, she seems to have plenty of reasons to dump him anyway. I don't understand why cheating would be worse than threats, money leeching and general abuse.
