BloodCat on 10/12/2008 at 00:10
Stitch, you're voicing my own fears, especially this part: "surrogate boyfriend".
But you see, I will rather go out with her and have some fun than sit at home or go through the painful exercise of going out with girls that bore me. I do enjoy the emotional rollercoaster, even if it isn't always easy.
And when you speak about the "the massive spinning dervish of instability that would be a serious relationship with her" I'm like: HELL YES!!! Give me that!
I will rather wade through the shit with a crazy flirty dame like her than safely turn into stone.
"riding this one into the ground for kicks" was my initial plan .... that didn't quite work out. I know this probably won't turn out well, and since I seem to be more attached to her than she's to me, it's likely going to be me who gets the short end. I've been warned, I won't come whining.
I'm good with Queue by the way. He's watching my ass in his own sick way.
Stitch on 10/12/2008 at 00:37
Two things:
First, you're sorely mistaken if you think the alternative is to date prudish schoolmarms who drive foreign compacts. Reliable people come in fun models as well.
Secondly, you clearly have no idea what it truly means to be in a chaotic relationship. There are high points, yes, but the rest of it is hell.
You've gotten out of a boring, safe relationship and are madly attracted to this crazy dame's star power. That's understandable, but you're mistaken if you think your options are limited to all one vs the other.
Also: I rather doubt you are in love.
BloodCat on 10/12/2008 at 01:00
Quote Posted by Stitch
Also: I rather doubt you are in love.
I'm trying to give it up a bit and think about it in an objective way, if only to protect myself. Sometimes it works.
I've been in chaotic relationships. Those are the ones you actually remember, right? And who's to say how this would turn out exactly. She can be quite caring after all.
You're probably right about the "fun models". I'll try and keep an eye open.
Muzman on 10/12/2008 at 07:40
This will come off as more passing snark but I'm still sticking to the theory that the guy just missed '2' when typing the age field.
Vasquez on 10/12/2008 at 08:19
Quote Posted by BloodCat
I've been in chaotic relationships. Those are the ones you actually remember, right?
Heh, this sounds a lot similar to "Yes, he cheats, drinks too much, steals my money and gives me a good slap now and then, but at least we don't have a
boring and
ordinary relationship!"
I do remember the one or two short and chaotic relationships from my youth, but if I was one to look back, I'd rather focus on the good, loving relationships I've had. But we all have our preferences, and that's ok.
BloodCat on 10/12/2008 at 09:14
I'm a 20 year old gay now? Oh well... Call me what you will.
Vasquez: I snogged with her friend last week, we both drink too much, there's not much she could steal from me and slaps are being exchanged the friendly way.
Vasquez on 10/12/2008 at 09:26
So it is a boring old relationship after all :(
Kolya on 10/12/2008 at 12:07
Here we go again...
The ladder theory is pseudo-science, made up and defended by ugly people without a life. You don't need a psychology major to see that you cannot sort anyone's behaviour into this dimwitted and misogynistic scheme.
