New Horizon on 25/10/2004 at 19:18
Quote Posted by Renzatic
What I don't understand is how or why an argument arose in the first place.
Same here Renz. Same here. :tsktsk:
Aditya on 25/10/2004 at 19:31
How pretentious really. :tsktsk:
New Horizon on 25/10/2004 at 19:52
Quote Posted by Aditya
How pretentious really. :tsktsk:
Why do you consider it necessary to be hurtful? One question, why do you think it is that you come off as provoking?
Aditya on 25/10/2004 at 20:24
Quote Posted by New Horizon
One question, why do you think it is that you come off as provoking?
Ever TRIED asking the same to yourself? Who is provoking who with constant references to "standards" argument here???? What really makes you think that ONLY YOU ARE CORRECT NO MATTER WHAT AND THAT I SHOULD INTROSPECT BECUASE YOU SAY I AM WRONG????? Just because a psychologically weak someone unable to help himself guy needs a cheerleader type of speech and gets impressed with you, does not make you saint and all so right. I know what I argued upon and you too damn well know that. Why this mask of "knowing nothing" now? Everybody has personal problems and if you can take time to introspect yourself instead of constantly preaching me, it will be a lot better. The FACT is that YOU provoke me to say all that I am saying and not vice versa. Continue the argument now if you must.
Springheel on 25/10/2004 at 20:36
Cave trolls, swamp trolls, mountain trolls, hill trolls...which one turns to stone in the sun again?
Aditya on 25/10/2004 at 20:38
Yeah left with nothing, come with this, TROLL! Nah, just too trifle by now.
Renzatic on 25/10/2004 at 20:42
Spring...I dunno if he's a troll or if he's truly taking this personally.
Either way it's pretty sad and completely pointless.
New Horizon on 25/10/2004 at 20:47
Quote Posted by Aditya
Ever TRIED asking the same to yourself? Who is provoking who with constant references to "standards" argument here???? What really makes you think that ONLY YOU ARE CORRECT NO MATTER WHAT AND THAT I SHOULD INTROSPECT BECUASE YOU SAY I AM WRONG????? Just because a psychologically weak someone unable to help himself guy needs a cheerleader type of speech and gets impressed with you, does not make you saint and all so right. I know what I argued upon and you too damn well know that. Why this mask of "knowing nothing" now? Everybody has personal problems and if you can take time to introspect yourself instead of constantly preaching me, it will be a lot better. The FACT is that YOU provoke me to say all that I am saying and not vice versa. Continue the argument now if you must.
I'm not arguing, I'm just asking. Yes, I do ask the same of myself and I try NOT to be rude or provoking. Doesn't always work, we're human after all. I don't think I'm right, I never said that. I know what you argued, but I still don't understand exactly why. There was no need for an argument in the first place Aditya, especially when all you had to do initially was PM me and ask if I meant to be offensive, which I did not. Also, I don't think anyone making a positive comment about me makes me think I'm a saint. As we've discussed privately...I'm really not that hung up on myself.
Ok, so we provoke EACH OTHER, that a fair assumption. I want to know why, because I do not go out of my way to provoke people, but you perceive that I do. I also perceive that you are provoking. I do try to put a spin on things and make a joke out of a silly situation, which is what this is. Why do I do this? It's a defense mechanism I developed growing up. Evidently you don't share that type of humor...also fair enough. So, it boils down incorrect perceptions of each other. I honestly don't like leaving things unfinished. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I want to meet you half way on this, understand where things went sour and say..."That's That!"
Gingerbread Man on 25/10/2004 at 20:52
Aditya, chill out.
Aditya on 25/10/2004 at 21:07
Quote Posted by New Horizon
I'm not arguing, I'm just asking. Yes, I do ask the same of myself and I try NOT to be rude or provoking. Doesn't always work, we're human after all.
And that all humans are NOT same. What your problem is that you are seeing just from your point of view and telling me to go exactly how YOU think is correct.
Quote Posted by New Horizon
I know what you argued, but I still don't understand exactly why.
You should have PM'ed me then! You go on and on telling what I should have done, but fail to implement that yourself.
Quote Posted by New Horizon
So, it boils down incorrect perceptions of each other.
Yes and I seriously don’t want a public display of it. I REQUESTED you to stay clear but you absolutely can't help it it seems. What you call "putting a spin on 'silly' situation" wasn’t really 'silly' as it was a matter un-resolved. If you honestly wish to know where things went sour, make a favorable base for others to proceed and not keep provoking them by making constant jokes.
