Vivian on 20/10/2010 at 21:47
Bluegrime, his life already sounds ruined to me.
no offence.
Kolya on 20/10/2010 at 21:56
Awesome advice, Bluegrime! But poisoning takes a long time (and finely tuned dosages) to get it right.
Buy a Gatling gun instead! It solves many problems in an instant:
- Lennon on the mall's PA?
- No free seat in the subway?
- Still no letter from C. Ricci?
- Annoying punkrockers in your loo?
- Nothing on the telly?
:D‡8==^
RATATTATATTTATATTATATTTATA!!!
Queue on 20/10/2010 at 22:03
And it's virtually guaranteed to end anyone's sexual frustration.
...man a Gatling gun would be sweet.
Kolya on 20/10/2010 at 22:07
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I'm telling you man, I'm on a roll with this one. Come pick me up at the parking lot behind the supermarket an let's shoot the breeze!
fett on 21/10/2010 at 02:47
Quote Posted by Bluegrime
It is so very, very easy to say "Completely change your life, divorce your wife, win custody, live happily evar after" with the assumption that it took more effort to think of that then it would to actually do it.. But how many of you people who have been giving this guy serious attempts at 'advice' have ever had to deal with a divorce, much less a custody battle? How many of you would be willing to take this guy and his kid in if he followed this oh-so-wonderful advice the sages here provide and his life got ruined?
Yes, yes, and yes (I think?). I've walked dozens of people through messy divorces and horrific custody battles, and my advice still stands. No one said "live happily ever after." Everyone is saying, "getting out of the situation, no matter how much is sucks, will be better than continuing to live in it." Which is true in every possible sense. I've watched people recover from a "ruined life" firsthand, as they lived in my own household, and you know what? Life goes on, they find happiness in new/other things, and try as hard as they can to deal with the mess they've made. But not once have I EVER heard a single person say, "I wish I could go back." Not once.
Tocky on 21/10/2010 at 04:21
Quote Posted by Vivian
no offence.
No offence hell. He came riding in after the dust cleared on the highest horse of all. I say we pull him down and kick his ass. You don't hock lugies on your wife and not expect people to call you on it first off and second unless his parents are crackheads then they are the fallback and punt position. I would hazard a guess we've been through a sight more than somebody who can't even read the posts and figure out we HAVE been through this kind of shit and might know enough to offer advice. Hell, I even qualified it with every situation is different.
Hold this grenade and count ten Bluegrime.
