Tocky on 17/10/2010 at 03:20
Perhaps she could stab you in the eyes so you both win?
nbohr1more on 17/10/2010 at 03:23
No shot.
I couldn't pay enough alimony as a blind-man :thumb:
Keep thinking, these are good suggestions... :angel:
Tocky on 17/10/2010 at 03:31
Damn. I was hoping selfishly that you wouldn't be able to post that way. Oh well. I don't know how hideously ugly you are on the outside but I know it is damned ugly inside to belittle someone not around to defend themselves. Perhaps this is merely a release for you and can be forgiven but I think if you would listen to your better nature you would understand where some of those you feel have been hard on you are coming from. No matter what you are on the outside you can control what you are on the inside. I'm a fairly goofy looking fathead myself but... oh shit I'm also an asshole. Nevermind.
You see what I'm saying though right?
nbohr1more on 17/10/2010 at 03:41
Yeah.
I get that blunt physical descriptions can be taken as mockery and anyone who feels they match those characteristics may be hurt by these things. (I doesn't help that I am a natural smart-ass).
But how will we ever have a frank and open discussion about sexual frustration if we have to walk-on-eggshells.
This seems to be the most detached place you air these thoughts and should allow folks to chime-in analytically. Yet, there is so much emotion in the subject matter that it seems nobody can openly discuss it even to random internet strangers.
Taboo Eternal, I suppose.
Tocky on 17/10/2010 at 04:03
I'm not sure what analysis would help. If you loved your wife her looks wouldn't be of such paramount importance and that is the sad thing. Everyone needs love. Perhaps if the two of you had it you could suggest a diet and fitness program you go on together. Sex is better fit anyway. But that would only work if you cared for one another. As it is you are flat out hopeless. She won't shape herself to please a man who doesn't love her and you won't love a woman without a pleasing shape.
Sex really doesn't have to be as base as you make it. Love overlooks minor details like weight and I would advise the both of you to find someone you CAN love. Or live alone. If you are good inside though, someone will love you provided you put yourself out there on the limb where you can be seen. As it is only hate can be generated from your relationship and that will warp your kids perceptions of love. Sorry.
Gingerbread Man on 17/10/2010 at 04:09
Honestly, I wish people would stop the threadshitting. nbohr1more may indeed be an ugly fellow with an ugly wife in an ugly marriage. For once the anonymity of the Tubes is working the right way, and our unattractive new friend is able to be blunt and truthful. I don't imagine it gives him good feelings to even think those things seriously, let alone actually "say" them out loud.
There are some useful things that will be said, I'm sure.
What the Christ is the world coming to when I find myself agreeing with Kolya five times in one month?
(Don't go looking for them, you smug prick. This is the only one I've commented on)
rachel on 17/10/2010 at 09:05
I wrote a long post about why I find this guy disgusting but it ended up disclosing far more intimate details about my life than I'm comfortable sharing online, so I'll just retire from this thread. I'll just say, I did have my reasons.
SubJeff on 17/10/2010 at 09:30
And by "reasons" you mean "unwanted but strangely enjoyable reacharound in a the gents at a German gabber club"?
Vasquez on 17/10/2010 at 11:14
Quote Posted by nbohr1more
But how will we ever have a frank and open discussion about sexual frustration if we have to walk-on-eggshells.
I'd say your much more acute problem is lousy marriage.
Vernon on 17/10/2010 at 11:15
Quote Posted by Subjective Effect
And by "reasons" you mean "unwanted but strangely enjoyable reacharound in a the gents at a German gabber club"?
I didn't know you and raph had met
