Ulukai on 15/10/2010 at 16:31
So, you married someone you're not and never were in love with and don't feel particularly attracted to? Regardless of how you feel, it's pretty rotten to be demeaning your spouse on the Internet.
Take it to (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chat_%28magazine%29) Chat Magazine, or some other trashy women's publication. They love this kind of stuff, especially if you have no qualms.
nbohr1more on 15/10/2010 at 16:55
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demeaning: present participle of de·mean (Verb)
1. Cause a severe loss in the dignity of and respect for (someone or something).
2. Do something that is beneath one's dignity
1) I explained that we are BOTH ugly.
2) How is being ugly not "respectable"? Do you show less respect for ugly folks? :confused:
(and my wife is clearly the "winner" here as she's the one who has had a more satisfying sexual life) ?
Queue on 15/10/2010 at 17:07
I always thought "demeaning" was what a black guy calls slapping his bitch around.
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(and my wife is clearly the "winner" here as she's the one who has had a more satisfying sexual life) ?
Stock in Duracell?
Ulukai on 15/10/2010 at 17:19
"Hello there, I'd like to introduce you to my wife. She's butt ugly and I have no feelings for her. But that's fine, I'm butt ugly too and she's seen more action with hawt dudes than me. So she wins"
Is your wife ok with you telling people she's ugly? It sure as hell isn't respectful. I imagine that'd be pretty hurtful, even if it's true.
nbohr1more on 15/10/2010 at 17:53
OK.
So honesty isn't you preference Ulukai ?
Since this is a (presumably) anonymous posting, my wife will never know. You are seeing my internal and honest feelings.
By all means, I will censor all this honesty if it is too much for folks to handle.
Usually "Sexual Frustration" is a taboo subject so I presumed that taboo breaking would be par for the course, no?
Ulukai on 15/10/2010 at 18:11
I doubt it's going to give any of us sleepless nights, just seems a rather strange thing to be doing.
If things are as you say they are, maybe you need to talk them over with your wife rather than with a bunch of strangers on the Internet - you seem to be in two minds about whether your marriage is a good thing and this is hardly the best place for marital advice.
nbohr1more on 15/10/2010 at 18:19
We both more-or-less know where things stand in our marriage.
We have resigned ourselves to this condition.
If you want to go out and find me and my wife better partners and make our lives rainbow filled dreamworlds go ahead.
My point was to show how lob-sided it is for men to fulfill their sexual satisfaction verse women.
Eg:
Women "I'm easy!" = Sexually satisfied.
Man "I'm easy!" = Laughter and no sexual satisfaction.
steo on 15/10/2010 at 18:27
Seriously?
nbohr1more on 15/10/2010 at 18:32
Well sure that is pretty simplified and imbued with humor but that is the gist of how I perceive the imbalance. Otherwise I would have been a male-slut for decades if not my entire life.
I could live with being called a "slut, whore, etc" if I had an enjoyable sex life.
rachel on 15/10/2010 at 18:33
Quote Posted by jock
And I think maybe you gonna give me a little one-on-one time with the misses.
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Oh, I think you might wanna reconsider that last part. See, I married me a powerful ugly creature.
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How can you say that? How can you shame me in front of new people?
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If I could make you purtier, I would.
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*gasps* You are not the man I met a year ago.
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