Kolya on 18/4/2007 at 17:04
WTF! ... Have I started this?!
Seriously jimjack, she seems uncertain. Just leave her alone for a while to ponder what it is she wants. She knows what you want now at least and it's nothing to feel bad about! It might take less time than you think that you get laid. Discipline! Don't spoil it now! :thumb:
Ulukai on 18/4/2007 at 17:27
Sounds like she has a flair amateur dramatics or likes to be the centre of attention. Or giving this girl we know almost nothing about the benefit of the doubt - maybe she just had a bad day.
Leave to simmer for a while, and see if an apology and/or explanation is forthcoming.
If not, get rid, 'cause she's messing with you. Bonus points for using the phrase "cloth-eared bint" if you do break up.
Gorgonseye on 18/4/2007 at 17:48
Young love, truly it is a beautiful thing. :rolleyes:
Malygris on 18/4/2007 at 18:33
My way or the highway, baby.
Dia on 18/4/2007 at 19:47
I think you should definitely communicate the fact to her that you didn't intend any insult or offense, apologize profusely, suggest that you both allow time for things to 'cool off' or 'settle down', then get the hell out of Dodge.
Go meet some nice, normal young ladies; this one sounds like she's troubled (or like she is trouble). I foresee nothing but problems if you try to continue a relationship with this particular young lady.
daprdan on 18/4/2007 at 19:59
say this;
"It's my teen hormones,Honey.they are running amock."
Apologise and wait.If headtrips continue,try to part amicably,as headtrippers can sometimes get carried away with themselves when crossed.
Turtle on 18/4/2007 at 20:05
Quote Posted by jimjack
...eating out...
Maybe you're not seeing eye to eye on this?
jimjack on 18/4/2007 at 20:09
Quote Posted by NyquistLimit
Just rape the bitch :p
From a fellow weedge..I'd expect no less:p
I'm thinking that if anyone's mind is getting messed here, it's mine. I read this passage of hers and I'm almost ready to excuse her on account of some pms episode that she's starting to reveal. She's never been into the dramatics or at least that I've never considered to be. I'm not too up on how the female mind operates. Besides that I'm starting to question her tacticts here as some red flags are going up. There's way to much dance before the axe. She's never had to fend me off like I'm some animal but then again I'm just abit selfish maybe I'm not reading some subtle signal. I won't guilt her into submission but I think she's ready enough, she just doesn't know it or she's just having a gas putting me on the boil for her amusement. Persistency is the key here.
I will use to this before abandoning ship. I mean how often do you get at least some potential here!?
Dia is pretty accurate here. Time will tell.
*jesus turtle..like I need more reasons
*Zaccheus* on 18/4/2007 at 20:22
Sometimes a person will complain about one thing when it's actually something else that is bothering her. So I think perhaps she is trying to express some other frustration about the relationship.
A trivial example might be that a wife wishes her husband did the washing up more often. One day she comes home and finds he's not taken the trash out - she goes mental for no apparent reason but later he finds out that she actually upset about something different (the washing up). Kind of thing.
So if the thing she is complaining about does not make sense, I'd gently ask her if there's anything else bothering her.
