jimjack on 18/4/2007 at 14:41
I've been seeing a girl for almost three months. We've known each other since the past year and have always been good friends. So now that its "official" we've been doing alot together. All the holding hands stuff like going to films, eating out, walking dogs, kicking the ball around (she's on the girls' soccer team which just puts her right up there in my books). Nothing further than a bit of making out. And its been nice. Up until this email I got from her the past week. I believe I've been scathed here.
" You shouldn't just take what you can and only stop when I make you. Wtf is wrong with you?! I make you stop and you say "Ok, I care about you etc and I don't want to do anything you're not ready for." Well, if you really care you wouldn't even try in the first place to get all you can. It's a pathetic attempt to make you think your doing what is best for me. Stop messing with my mind!!"
Right.. Where this suddenly arose from I'm not sure. first off I've never put a hand on her that she didn't want on her. I've been getting all the signals and I've not pushed it past anything I'd like to do be doing. I completely respect her and care about her. And besides Im not as ready for anything further than I'd like to think I am. Just thougt I'd share this bit of confusion here. I think I best be putting the brakes on this, I seriously think she doesn't know what she wants either.
Rogue Keeper on 18/4/2007 at 14:46
Quote Posted by jimjack
I seriously think she doesn't know what she wants either.
And this is the answer to a man's eternal question "What women want."
You will use to it.
TTK12G3 on 18/4/2007 at 14:55
Quote Posted by jimjack
I think I best be putting the brakes on this, I seriously think she doesn't know what she wants either.
Assuming you are both sixteen, I'd say that's normal. Either way, deal with it.
fett on 18/4/2007 at 15:05
What the fuck has happened to this place? :erg:
Gingerbread Man on 18/4/2007 at 15:06
You will use to it.
Kolya on 18/4/2007 at 15:08
And stick it in her pooper when she's distracted! She won't notice.
Matthew on 18/4/2007 at 15:08
Sit her down and say just what you've said here, that you don't feel that you want to go any further, it's just difficult when you find her so hot. ;) You're sorry that she felt you were trying to push any limits, it wasn't your intention to give that impression because it wasn't what you were trying to do.
The 'messing with my mind!!1' bit is just a little weird though.
Edit: am I glad I didn't use the comedy anal option now!
D'Juhn Keep on 18/4/2007 at 16:13
Quote Posted by Matthew
Sit her down and say just what you've said here
The hell with this, tell her to put out or get out :mad:
NyquistLimit on 18/4/2007 at 16:33
Just rape the bitch :p
