theBlackman on 13/10/2009 at 06:18
"p.s. - I really wouldn't care so much if this hasn't happened half a dozen to dozen times..."
In other words YOU are a SLOOOOOWWWW Learner.
Shayde on 13/10/2009 at 06:23
My husband and I became friends when we were 14. He moved to Durban and then I moved away to go to varsity~ about 5 years we were miles apart. We lived separate lives and each had a great time doing it. We'd often go months without talking or E-mailing and instant replying was never an issue. I think if he did get all stroppy about it I'd have laughed at him and called him a needy bitch.
Maybe you should try to have a more active and varied social life so that you're not fixating on certain people.
Nicker on 13/10/2009 at 07:06
You have so many biatches on ComChat, she's obviously jealous.
Moving on doesn't have to be nasty. There's no obligation on either side. No need to leave trails of flaming wreckage in your wake.
Say something like "hope you are well and that you find what you are looking for". Try to mean it, then go looking for some of that yourself. You'd be amazed how much more attractive you will be as a grown up than you'd be as a pissed off kid.
aka - what fett said.
Scots Taffer on 13/10/2009 at 07:15
Wow, Thief13x got burned by tBM, it's like watching two steamrollers crash in slow motion.
uncadonego on 13/10/2009 at 09:52
I'm not going to start off by saying "when I was your age". Well, I guess I just did. Best way to find someone who likes you is to stop looking or worrying about it. Then you'll be free to be yourself. When someone decides they like you, they'll be liking the real you, not the one you can't sustain for very long. Don't worry about girls or what they're thinking, or impressing them or any crap like that.
You don't need to figure out what women want. They're all different anyway, so don't try. When someone decides they like you, just worry about what that one woman wants.
One day when my boy was little he came up to me crying that the cats didn't like him. They always ran away when they saw him coming. I told him to leave them alone. He was always trying to hold them from leaving and petting them, figuring they'd eventually learn to like it. I told him, when they want to come to you, let them come. When they want to walk away, let them walk away. He was happy that the cats started liking him because he didn't try to control them. I think that's why a lot of men hate cats. They can't control them. Dogs will submit if they see you as alpha dog. Cats want to be free and independent. People are like that. Women are people.
Vivian on 13/10/2009 at 09:59
Send her a picture of your dong with a different coloured ribbon wrapped around it every day for a month. If that doesn't work, I'm out of ideas.
Harvester on 13/10/2009 at 11:06
Tell her you'll start cutting yourself if she doesn't reply. :devil:
Aerothorn on 13/10/2009 at 11:21
Call her repeatedly using Skype (which shows up as "unknown number") and breathe heavily before hanging up.
Rufus on 13/10/2009 at 13:06
You want an advice from a woman how to handle a woman? Take this: Go to her personally and say exactly this: What the hell is going on with us? If she says "nothing" or some other bullshit just be persistent, don't leave without an explanation. And don't make it her fault, she might have reasons for her behaviour (maybe). This is the only way that will work.
I know women are strange, unpredictable, dangeous, cranky and highly insane freaks. But knowing and accepting this it is a lot easier to handle them. Talking in private and personally is the best way, by force if needed.
On further woman secrets I'll shut my mouth now ;)
