tungsten on 12/6/2006 at 15:01

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I'm very sorry for you, Dia. Please accept my condolences.
Please "use" your friends, at any time. Those on- and offline. Call/write/meet them, no matter what time of day it is.
I admire you for honouring his wishes about not using a "life support system", this is a very tough decision, and you did right. You are very strong.
Other people's memories and the influences a person had in life are what really makes a person immortal. You carry those memories, keep going and take care to these memories and yourself.

Hewer on 12/6/2006 at 15:51

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Oh, Dia.

I really know what you mean about the worst part being waking up in the morning. Everything is so raw and fresh every morning. I know you know that it will eventually pass, but until then draw all the strength you can from your friends and family. And feel free to lean on your friends here- we'll all help as much as we are able.

My heart is gladdened to hear that Bart is an organ donor. It's an honorable thing that you should be very proud of.


You have my deepest condolences.

Hewer

Jenesis on 12/6/2006 at 16:27

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I've only just seen this, too. My condolences. I'll be praying for you.

:(:(:(

Vigil on 12/6/2006 at 16:58

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I'm really grateful you felt able to share this with us, Dia. I know we can seem like an unlikely source of comfort at times, but we're here when you need us - please remember that.
Words seem so to act so clumsy at times like these... but I wish you strength and solace from the bottom of my heart.

Haegan on 12/6/2006 at 18:23

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Everyone here is supporting you Dia. This is evidence that although we squabble over futile and pointless things, we have a really strong community here, when it really matters.