37637598 on 11/10/2008 at 22:27
Quote Posted by theBlackman
You need to move on, and stop blaming her for what is probably your deficiency.
I'm not blaming anyone, there's no blame to be applied anyway. It's my fault for not having been raised in a family that supports me, and it's my fault for not having millions of dollars in the bank, and it's my fault for not knowing all the answers. But that's who i am, so if she doesn't like it, it's her fault.
End of story.
theBlackman on 12/10/2008 at 06:33
Sorry, but the heading did blame her she left, she sucks.
In this case there is no blame attached, but it's not your "Fault" either. No blame attaches to not having money, or the rest of the things you listed.
If she must have those things then she is the only who is lacking.
But if she put up with you for four years, then there must have been something you offered.
It appears that whatever that was vanished from the relationship. And I doubt it was the things you listed. More likely some emotional item that disappeared.
Perhaps, in this instance, you both "sucked".
37637598 on 12/10/2008 at 07:28
Saying she sucks, isn't blaming her for anything... I must be missing something... Oh well, I'm feeling much better right now then I was earlier!!!
theBlackman on 12/10/2008 at 08:31
Good, glad you are feeling better.
Just keep in mind, if you are like most humans (male, or female), you are going to have a lot more of these in your life.
You might get lucky. I stumbled on mine and, for whatever reason, she's still here after 38 years.
For the most part, members of the opposite sex are like charabancs or streetcars, there will be another one along any minute.
bikerdude on 12/10/2008 at 08:36
Quote Posted by Scots Taffer
URL for live webcam show.
ST.... you really are a cnut... but then, this is comm chat...
Scots Taffer on 12/10/2008 at 08:54
Sorry, bikerdude, I'm just helping numbers see the lighter side of life.
icemann on 12/10/2008 at 09:37
Bring on the break up stories
For me: My "first love" got back with her ex (who had been hanging around waiting for us to break up by causing shit) a week after we broke up. That was 7 years ago and their now married and planning on having kids. I laugh about it now, but back then sure did it piss me off.
Vivian on 12/10/2008 at 10:26
Hold on a second. 'Webcam Model'? Your ex takes her clothes off for an amazon wishlist? Jesus. You're probably better off.
Also, Scots was totally right. URL pls.
Kolya on 12/10/2008 at 10:59
Not interested if she doesn't really suck.
After a year and a half of fucking our brains out my first GF decided it would be cooler to smoke weed with beggar punks on the street instead. I was heart broken and still missed her after years and other girls (all of which I happened to break up with) when I saw her again on a demo against the war on Iraq in 2003. She wasn't half as cute as she had been at 14, so I got over that.
The_Raven on 12/10/2008 at 16:15
Grossly inappropriate, but I just can't help myself.
"Girlfriends that leave you TOTALLY suck[ed]!" Now, that's a great thread title.
I'm sorry.
