Swiss Mercenary on 11/10/2008 at 17:10
Quote Posted by Turtle
First loves are not for marrying, unless you're in a hurry to get to your second marriage.
Being someone sitting in the first relationship (Of a year) boat, that it'll more then likely be over sooner then later... A very scary prospect. Especially considering that we're both very shy people.
I guess time (And more likely then not, moving in with her sometime next year) will tell.
AR Master on 11/10/2008 at 18:36
Quote Posted by raph
Your maps is bad.
woah shit blast from the past lol
pavlovscat on 11/10/2008 at 18:58
I've got a friend who uses google mail. His gf wanted to break up with him & rather than own up to it and at least call him, she attempted to tell him via email. Well, the email went round & round and never really got to the point. But, google was way too smart for her. Here are the ads that google was showing based on the content of her email:
Inline Image:
http://www.thief-thecircle.com/images/forum/dumped.jpgMy friend knew he was going to be alright when he could LOL at the ad and forward it to all of his friends.
raevol on 11/10/2008 at 19:42
Quote Posted by pavlovscat
My friend knew he was going to be alright when he could LOL at the ad and forward it to all of his friends.
Classic. :joke:
37637598 on 11/10/2008 at 20:18
uhhhgh... Waking up this morning was NOT fun at all... As I was waking up, I completely forgot about any of it, then when I was awake, reality hit me right where it hurts.
I just don't know what to do. I really want her back, and i know what I need to do to get her back, but I have no way of doing it... I spoke with her this morning on the phone, and she said she was going to come here to drop off my camera, it's been 2 hours and I called her back. She said "Well, I'll probably drop it off later, i don't know. I'll call you before I do". Now I just wait I guess. I never thought this would happen.
PS, lol @ the google ads!
TBE on 11/10/2008 at 20:41
A wise man once said it's best to let sleeping dogs lay.
She doesn't appear interested in you, and knows she has you by the balls. Act like you don't even care if she calls or comes over. Invite a female friend of yours over to watch tv or something so she is there when your girlfriend drops by. Maybe if you have a good enough female friend, she can piss off your g/f by acting like she likes you.
It's probably best just to move on, but getting back at her like you don't care will really make her think about if she wants to be with you or not. If you're clingy, she's probably had enough of it, and wants to get away from it.
heretic on 11/10/2008 at 20:56
Dude, your 20. Bigger and better things will come your way, and next time you may have some life experience to flesh it out.
If you are really that lost than put shit on hold and use your new found freedom to travel or backpack around. The year or so I spent doing just that are a large part of what has been seeing me through several years and counting of marriage and suburban life.
Stretch your legs and your horizons. Join the Peace Corps or Navy if you are so inclined, just work towards doing something aside from dwelling on your present heartache.
37637598 on 11/10/2008 at 21:54
Thanks for the advice guys! I already feel 50% better. i called her and told her that I'm ready to let her go, and the next time we talk, she can call me.
Now I just have to think of the good, parties every weekend, money, cars, friends, fun. :)
It's still going to be hard because everything I know has something to do with her, so I think I need to get new stuff. I have great support from my friends though, and no doubt I'll heal very quickly.
The_Raven on 11/10/2008 at 22:06
Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?
Hell if I know, since I belong to the latter category.
theBlackman on 11/10/2008 at 22:16
Of course it's all her fault. You had nothing to do with not being the right person and giving her what she needed.
It does take two. But you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a Princess.
You need to move on, and stop blaming her for what is probably your deficiency.
