can I just ask who is deleting everything, as in which mod? Please dont, maybe just let some stuff die naturally.

As mentioned earlier, Chakats are quite promiscuous and will happily engage in sex-play with any other compatible chakat, human or morph (of any gender) whom they have come to know and like. This is a common form of social interaction, and one essential to their psychological make-up. They try to avoid procreative incestuous relationships for practical reasons - although careful genetic selection has eliminated virtually all dangerous recessives and inherited diseases, etcetera, the rather small original gene-pool makes it advisable that they get as much diversity into the community as possible. They are also capable of self-fertilization, but only through artificial intervention as organ placement precludes natural self-insemination. However, this option is never practiced as they prefer to produce children as a result of a union with someone they love and not as an act of self-gratification.