jbairdjr on 24/1/2008 at 10:33
Quote Posted by Biohazard
So to put things simply, my girlfriend cheated on me.....I knew about a previous boyfriend she had cheated on.
Put a flag over her face, and
fuck her for Old Glory's sake. Then dump her.
Stitch on 24/1/2008 at 16:26
"Put a flag over her face, and fuck her for old glory's sake. Then dump her."
Shug on 24/1/2008 at 22:53
GOD BLESS AMERICA
jbairdjr obviously wants to put a few extra stripes on the flag
Scots Taffer on 24/1/2008 at 23:22
While a full orchestra plays Ode to Joy, dollar bills fall from the sky, champagne splashing everywhere and Iraq gets nuked in the background.
Aja on 24/1/2008 at 23:26
more like John Philip Sousa
SD on 24/1/2008 at 23:59
Quote Posted by Biohazard
my girlfriend cheated on me
Quote:
she cheated on a previous boyfriend
How is this even a question. She should already be history. I don't understand how a guy could look in the mirror and respect himself if he allows himself to be walked over like that. Are you the alpha male, or not?
Oh, but you
love her. Jesus, you make it sound like there's just one special person, and she's it. Ain't so. By my reckoning, you can potentially fall in love with every twentieth woman or so - ones in your age range at least.
So yeah, dump her now. Needless to say, fucking her cuter friends is recommended. Then send her the photos.
Shug on 25/1/2008 at 02:40
While I'm assuming there's a touch of dark humour in that post, playing the revenge game is probably ultimately the worst thing you could do to your own mindset. Which isn't to say that you can't sleep with her friends/acquaintances (WOOOOOO SPRING BREAK) but the motivation should be more positive
edit: not to mention the poor form of exploiting uninvolved people
jbairdjr on 25/1/2008 at 05:55
Quote Posted by Shug
GOD BLESS AMERICA
jbairdjr obviously wants to put a few extra stripes on the flag
You got a better idea? :confused:
sparhawk on 25/1/2008 at 11:40
Quote Posted by Biohazard
However, I thought with such a wide range of people I would hear stories about how cheating has/has not ruined a relationship. I appreciate you all sharing your thoughts and stories, as it has let me think about things in a new way and ultimately make a decision.
You shouldn't make such a decision based on stories by some people on the internet. It's your life and you must be satisfied with it. Cheating itself is not the problem. It's how both parts of the relationship view it. There are couples where cheating is accepted and of course then it's not real cheating. There are other couples where it's already considered cheating when you just look at another man/women for too long.
So the bottom line is: What does it mean to you? Can you live with it and accept it? What's up with her? How does she see it? If you consider it cheating and she does not, then maybe you don't really go together very well, despite some other things that might be great.
You both define your relationship and whats acceptable and what not. And if you can't live with it, then your relationship will break sooner or later anyway. Or you can live a miserable live, thinking how you not deserved this and how you can go on about changing her. You can't change people. Only people themselve can change them. It's no use to complain that she is smoking despite her promising to stop smoking because she loves you so much and you don't want it. And it's pretty similar with other aspects of the relationship, including cheating.
Rug Burn Junky on 27/1/2008 at 01:50
Quote Posted by jbairdjr
Put a flag over her face, and
fuck her for Old Glory's sake. Then dump her.
Spoken exactly like someone who's spent the past 15 years meekly fucking his wife in the missionary position and who wouldn't have the balls to do that.
Never mind the fact that it's retarded.
