WingedKagouti on 3/2/2019 at 12:13
Quote Posted by Tocky
Thanks guys. In my head I know that but it's not the way it feels.
You can't control your emotions, but getting outside confirmation of what you know to be true can help the healing process.
Also, my 9 1/2 months old kitty (Ronja):
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https://i.imgur.com/bs70qAs.jpgHer mother was a wild cat who was pregnant (with 3 kittens) when she was brought to the local shelter. I first met Ronja about a week or so before the shelter would let her be seperated from her mother and was instantly smitten by the playful bundle of energy. I would also happily have given her siblings a home instead of her (if she had been reserved), but she was luckily available for adoption.
harleygjc on 3/2/2019 at 12:30
Tocky you didn't betray his trust, you did what you could, I know exactly how you feel, I lost my beloved Bearded collie cross very sudden 8 years ago this year, she was having trouble eating, after about ten mins it would come back up and I was told after tests is was lymph cancer, I lost her in a few days, I had to take her to the vet and let go, hardest thing I've ever done as she meant a lot to me but she couldn't eat or drink.
It was harder to do that than for me to make the choices I had years earlier and go in for major surgery on my feet, I didn't want to do it, and I'd give anything to have her back but there wasn't a choice, I could've tried chemo but it was a low chance and alot to put her through for maybe a few months, you like me did what you could, your trust wasn't betrayed.
Medlar on 3/2/2019 at 18:42
Get another cat quickly Tocky, cats and dogs need people like you.